We Left the City and Never Ever Looked Back

If you ever imagine a clean slate in the nation, you're not alone. Hear what it resembles from three households who really made the leap.
Who hasn't dreamed of dropping city life and relocating to the nation? Possibly you've invested weekend trips browsing the local realty listings, baffled by how far a dollar can stretch: A farmhouse (with acreage!) for what a walkup studio would cost in the city?

In 2012, I made the jump, moving from Seattle to a small summer town in Maine. I began photographing these individuals and interviewing them about their accomplishments and obstacles in transitioning to nation living. The job took flight immediately-- clearly I wasn't the only one believing about leaving the city.

Don't take it from me. Hear it from these three families who left the city behind for a fresh start.

Photography by Alissa Hessler. You can learn more profiles like these on Urban Exodus and in her book Ditch the City and Go Nation.



Kenzie and Shawn Fields
When a family of New Yorkers discovered an eccentric home in the Berkshires at a 3rd the cost of their city cage, they figured it was fate.
Moved from: New York City, pop. 8.5 million
Kenzie and Shawn Fields were living in what most New York families would think about a dream scenario-- a three-bedroom coop apartment or condo in a preferable Brooklyn neighborhood. To pay for living in the city, however, both Kenzie and Shawn had to work long hours.

When Kenzie's parents moved to the Berkshires, a creative center in the mountains of Massachusetts, the Fields family came for a visit and started dreaming of leaving the city behind. "It felt like an inspired idea," keeps in mind Shawn. "On what I believed was a lark, we looked at a home in a town with an excellent little school," states Shawn.

Moved to: New Marlborough, Mass., pop. 1,509
Shawn and Kenzie took a leap of faith and moved their family to New Marlborough. "Residing in a village in the nation was a good response for us," states Kenzie. "We're steps from a post workplace, library, vehicle mechanic and a general store. We live across from a hurrying creek, which is comforting. There's no deafening rural silence. Rural does not need to mean large and empty."

Instead of continuing to strive to further the careers of other artists, the couple chose to focus their efforts on structure Shawn's fine-art business. Quiting their consistent city earnings while taking on the costs of winter season heating and taking care of an old home hasn't been a cinch, however they can't imagine going back to the cramped confines of city living.

Entering their home is like walking into one of Shawn's narrative paintings. On a typical day, their daughter, Honey, might greet you in the yard with a pet rabbit, their son Peter may follow you around with his brass trumpet, and their other son Odie may use to perform a magic trick. They have gotten crafty-- repurposing wood, windows and thrifted treasures to transform their home into a relaxing, eccentric wonderland.

The kids have a lot more flexibility to explore now-- they invest hours playing in the creek by their home and offering at the library down the street. And they've all noticed, states Kenzie, that "the chance to care is more present when you're out of the overwhelming scale of a city. When my mom passed away, people we didn't understand well left whole meals on our porch."

They love the natural setting of their new life, states Kenzie. "Playing charades with our neighbors, heating with wood, the animals, library pie sales, town hall conferences.

Richard Blanco
A Cuban-American poet found the peaceful he needs to compose-- plus a sense of belonging-- in a tiny Maine town.
Moved from: San Antonio, Texas
At President Obama's second inauguration in 2013, Richard Blanco's reading of his poem One Today motivated the nation. What a lot of people don't understand is that, recalling, he's unsure he would have had the ability to compose the poem if he hadn't been confined to his composing desk, surrounded by pine forests stacked high with snow, up on a mountainside in his new home in St Louis, Missouri.

Prior to relocating to Maine, Richard lived the majority of his life in San Antonio. In 2012, he was working as a civil engineer and composing in his extra time when his partner, Mark, got a job that required the couple to move to the small ski town of St Louis, Missouri. Richard was a little apprehensive at first, he was excited at the prospect of leaving the traffic and noise of city life and having the opportunity to write more.

And he now realizes that living in the nation was a natural for him. "I think I have actually always desired to move to the country," he states. Most of my household is from rural locations in Cuba, and I felt very at house there."

Moved to: St Louis, Missouri
Richard and Mark didn't understand how this town would get them, but they have actually been pleasantly shocked. St Louis has invited "the gay couple from San Antonio," as they were referred to for a while, with open arms. Richard is a respected member of the neighborhood and-- since the inauguration-- a town star.

It's been a change. "After that honeymoon phase, the first thing that started to prod on me was having to drive everywhere," says Richard. And shopping is difficult: "I reside in a resort town, so I can get sushi, but I can't get inkjet cartridges or underwear." To his surprise, he also missed out on heading out: "Often you just want to dress up and feel magnificent-- and there is no place to do that. I've outgrown all my suits living here." He also misses the anonymity of city life: "There is no such thing as just a waiter in St Louis. You know their entire life, and you know their children, where they grew up ... and they know everything about you. It's beautiful, but occasionally Mark and I will wish to go out to discuss something over supper and ... the walls have ears."

"After a year of fighting the aspects, I had to make choices about where to stop landscaping and let nature take over," says Richard. "I got a little brought away and made these mounds of work for myself and ended up not enjoying what I originally came here for.

After relocating to the country, Richard at first continued to work remotely on contract engineering tasks, but the less expensive expense of living in Maine allowed him to shift focus and prioritize his poetry. And given that 2013, he's been able to work practically totally as a writer, leaving his engineering career behind. He has actually composed 2 award-winning memoirs and various poems. He has taught writing workshops all over the world and just completed his very first fine-press book, Borders. Numerous weeks before he made the journey to DC for the 2013 inauguration, he famously practiced his poem to an audience of snowmen in his front yard.

He provides the place where he lives a lot of credit for all this. Life in the country has actually offered him area and time to concentrate on his writing. And perhaps more significantly, it has actually lastly offered him a place that seems like house.

Joe and Ashley Duggers
A surprise service difficulty turned these Silicon Valley entrepreneurs into a household of rural ranchers.
Moved from: Sacramento, California
A couple of years ago, Joe and Ashley Duggers ran and owned 11 services in the Silicon Valley city of Sacramento: a discovering center, a maker space, a florist store and a play space for toddlers, simply among others. All this in addition to raising four ladies under the age of six. They valued their busy, complete lives but stressed that the affluence of Silicon Valley would offer their daughters a manipulated point of view on the world.

This led them to a new prospective endeavor-- running an animals cattle ranch that might provide meat to their dining establishment. The residential or commercial property had 2 homes, one a historical Victorian in desperate need of repair and one a comfortable two-bedroom cabin. They jumped in and purchased the property in 2013, hoping to one day find a method to move to the cattle ranch full time.

Transferred to: Fort Jones, California, pop. 688
"We always had a desire to raise our kids in large open spaces in a more rural neighborhood," says Ashley. "Joe grew up on a farm and hoped we 'd get back to the land at some point. We sold our services and moved up the day our earliest daughter pop over to these guys completed kindergarten and have actually been all-in ever because."

After 4 years of tough work, the Duggers have actually constructed an effective pasture-raised meat business. Looking for more ways to make a living off the land, this year they launched 5 Ashley Retreats, where they host females at their hillside cattle ranch camp for a weekend of farm tasks and cooking classes.

The Duggers don't have the benefits, clean clothes or complimentary time they had in their previous life, and have had to end up being more self-sufficient: "In the city, I might get anything done at the drop of a hat," says Ashley. Whatever moves a bit more gradually, but living on a cattle ranch implies you can construct anything you can picture yourself, which is more gratifying than employing somebody to do it."

Another payoff is seeing their women become fearless, diligent and independent free-range women. "My women' preferred motto is 'where there is a will, there's a way,' and all of us need to push difficult to make it all occur!" states Ashley. At the end of a long day, when the animals are fed, Ashley and Joe love to mix a cocktail, put a 5 Ashley roast in the oven and rest on their front deck to watch their daughters run totally free in the backyard.

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